As believers in true love, we do like to celebrate our chance meeting in the Seahorse Tavern in 1987 and all that has come after, each February 14th. This time last year, we were living in Shanghai and had an incredible array of food and restaurants available to us to step out and celebrate. This year, we find ourselves in Manila, still finding our way around the food scene and restaurant community. While we do love to try new food and experience new menus, we have to admit that we often end up at home on Valentine’s Day while many couples venture out to fill the restaurants to capacity on the biggest fine dining night of the year.
Being married to a chef who feels that Feb.14 could be one of the worst nights to book a table in a beautiful eatery, we usually opt for a dinner party or a romantic evening at home with just the two of us.

Two happily married Valentine guests toast true love at our dinner party, Shanghai, 2009
I could ramble on about all the February dinner parties we’ve had over the years with couples who arrived bleary-eyed from adjusting to a new baby, or couples who we admired for their longevity and fun, or those couples who rolled up our rugs and danced between courses. (And even one couple who over-imbibed and made the uncomfortable announcement of an affair that had recently been brought to light in their marriage. Not invited back, sorry to say).
While we did escape the compound to spend the pre-Valentine weekend at a lovely coastal hotel, which seemed to hang off the side of a cliff here in Anilao, Philippines, we limited our dining to sunset cocktails and rich pate and brie on a baguette in our room.

Sunset at Anilao, Batangas, Philippines
This Feb. 14th, we decided that instead of dining out, we will be at home enjoying the culinary bliss of a traditional romantic menu. Yes, I think the French had a great idea with the combination of a superior cut of beef ($9.00 for two servings)and the old stand-by, Bearnaise. You can transform a nice cut of beef into a sublime experience when topped with this decadent butter sauce! Add a little heart-shaped side dish and some delicate asparagus or lightly dressed greens and you’ll have a meal that would cost you a lot in a restaurant. Don’t forget that at-home dining with Bearnaise gives you the option to clean every drop of sauce off of your plate in what could be considered an unbecoming manner in a public dining room. Don’t forget to have a little chocolate and some bubbly to round out the romance!
Roasted Beef Tenderloin with Béarnaise Sauce
There is no “could be” about it. Valentine’s Day is amateur night. Regular restaurants are full of people who usually use the drive through, and the better places are full of people used to flipping through giant plastic pages before ordering. It’s not their fault, however; the people who make February 14 the worst possible night to eat out are the owners and managers who insist on trying to jam as many patrons into their restaurants as possible, overloading their kitchens, stressing out their wait staff, and stacking the deck against an enjoyable evening.
So here’s an easy recipe you can cook at home. Living overseas, we have gotten into the habit of eating less beef than we would in Canada, largely because of the high cost of imported Australian or US beef and the unpredictability of local products. When we do go for something in the steak line, I try to find locally raised beef tenderloin, which is generally less than half the price of imported tenderloin, but just as tender. The thing about beef tenderloin is that it isn’t the most flavorful cut of beef, no matter what country it comes from, and it can pretty much always be counted on to be tender.
The two classic preparations for beef tenderloin are Chateaubriand and Filet Mignon. The first refers to the roasted “head” of the tenderloin, the thickest part, which, in restaurants, is usually only available for two or more diners, and the second refers to slices of the thinner parts of the tenderloin pan fried as individual steaks. I like both preparations, but roasting has the advantage of requiring less last minute attention, and it is much easier to achieve the desired degree of doneness.
There are five essential steps to roasting meat that will ensure the best possible flavor, and the least loss of moisture. These principles also apply to cooking meat on a grill.
1. Start with meat that is at room temperature. Simply take the meat out of the fridge well ahead of time, or, if it is well wrapped, place it in a large bowl of warm water.
You don’t necessarily have to buy the very thickest part of the tenderloin to successfully roast it, but don’t take the very thin piece at the end. It will be the most expensive cut of meat available, but since there is no fat or bone, a little goes a long way. (The piece of beef in the illustrations is roughly ten ounces, a healthy five per person.)
You may have to trim off the silverskin though, a band of tough white tendon running parallel to the grain of the meat; just slide a knife into the tendon, poke it through, and gently slice it away from the meat. Turn your knife around and slice the other way. Repeat this several times to remove the whole tendon.
2. Season the meat with salt and pepper just before searing.
If you put the salt on any earlier it will draw moisture out of the meat, and make it difficult to achieve a good sear.
3. Sear the outside of the meat at as high a temperature as possible, as quickly as possible.
Many cookbooks tell you that the point of this step is to “seal in the juices,” but as food scientist Harold McGee demonstrates in his fascinating book on the science of cooking, Food and Cooking, this is nonsense. You can’t seal in juices. This is still a critical step, however; the point is to caramelize the sugars on the outside of the meat, and thereby to create flavor. The reason you want to do it at a high heat, and as quickly as possible, is so that the outside of the piece of meat does not overcook and dry out before the inside is done. Heat up a little oil in a small frying pan, and when it is good and hot add the tenderloin. Let it sizzle for a minute or two, and then turn it and cook the opposite side.
You want a nice, dark crust on the outside, and you want to sear all sides, so when you have turned it over a few times lengthways, turn it sideways and sear the ends as well. When it is done, take it out of the frying pan with a pair of tongs and place it on a wire rack set inside a shallow roasting pan. This part can be done ahead of time, and in fact it is a good idea to let the meat cool down a bit before putting it in the oven.
4. Roast the meat at a low temperature. No more than 350° F.
Low temperatures equal less moisture loss. About fifteen minutes before you want to eat, put the beef in a preheated oven, 325 to 350° F. If you have a lot of experience cooking meat, you can test the doneness by poking it with your finger; an easier way is to use an instant read thermometer.
Cook to 130-35° F for rare, 135-40° F for medium rare, and 140-45° F for medium. If you want to cook it any longer that that, you’ve wasted your money; get yourself some ground chuck instead and make a nice Salisbury steak.
5. When the meat is done, let it rest on a wire rack for five or ten minutes before slicing it.
Pretty much any decent cookbook will tell you to rest the meat.
The real secret, though, is the wire rack. If you a piece of meat out of the oven, off the grill, or out of a frying pan and put it on a plate, its own weight will push a lot of the juices out before the resting has done its job. (Resting the meat provides time for the internal temperature to even out, so that juices that have been driven to the outer edges can return to the center.) Placing it on wire rack, on the other hand, means that there are only a few pressure points, and thus only a few places for juice to leak out. I learned this tip at the Inn at Bay Fortune, working for Chef Michael Smith, and it is incredible what a difference it makes.


While the meat is resting, prepare your side dishes (French fries go really well with Béarnaise, but mashed potatoes are much easier because you can cook them ahead of time and heat them up in the microwave. When the meat has rested, slice it into four pieces, arrange two pieces per plate, one from the outside and one from the inside, and drizzle the Béarnaise sauce around the edges of the meat.
For the Béarnaise Sauce
Most cookbook recipes for Béarnaise make about a cup and a half of sauce, enough for two people if each person weighs four hundred pounds. Or would like to. For a romantic dinner then, you want to reduce this to half a cup, tops.
1 t chopped shallots, or 1 t chopped onion with just a smidge of chopped garlic
2 t coarsely chopped fresh tarragon, stems included
1 T white wine vinegar
2 T water
1 egg yolk
4 oz butter, melted
1 t finely chopped fresh tarragon leaves, no stems
Shallots are hard to come by in Asia, so when I can’t find them I just substitute onion and garlic, but you could also just use onion. Don’t worry too much about these amounts, as you are going to strain the shallots or onions out anyway.
Most recipes call for white wine along with the vinegar and water, but to make such a small amount it is much easier to skip the wine, and it won’t affect the flavor significantly. Put the shallots, water, and
vinegar in a small pot over medium heat and reduce the liquid to half the volume. Strain the liquid into a small metal bowl, and add the egg yolk to the bowl. Heat some water in a small pot; you need to be able to sit the metal bowl on top, to make a
little double boiler. Take a larger bowl and fill it half full with ice water. When the water in the pot comes to a boil, turn the heat off and place the small bowl with the egg yolk on top. Whisk the egg and vinegar mixture together; it should quickly start to thicken and foam, at which point whisk in the butter in a slow stream. When the butter is incorporated and the sauce has thickened, remove the bowl from the pot and place it in the bowl of ice water to stop the egg from over cooking and curdling, whisking all the time. Add the finely chopped tarragon leaves, taste, and adjust for salt. If the sauce thickens too much, thin it by whisking in a tablespoon of warm water.